WHAT IS FIERCE LOVE?
The world is more and more polarised. We seem to be reaching peak “either/or” thinking where people are good or bad, politics is left or right, and people are male or female.
We’re entering an age in which we realise that energy is more significant than matter, and energy doesn’t fall neatly into one of two sides… it’s nuanced. A bit this, a bit that, and a lot of something other.
When we expand our consciousness, we can move towards a new reality of “both/and” in which both sides are included in a greater whole.
We have become habituated to the simplicity of opposing sides in which RAGE & REVENGE opposes PEACE & LOVE.
Rage is aggressive. It often forces people into submission through fear, but it can also achieve justice for the disempowered.
Peace is passive. It brings hope for a better future, but it can often be powerless, incompetent, or ineffectual.
And then there’s the men vs women debate which has overlooked the fact that the world needs more feminine energy rather than female gender.
So what is feminine energy? Again our representations of it are polarised. Nasty or nice.
Nasty – Strong, smart, ass-kicking, glass ceiling breaking, insult-wielding, Marvel comic caricatures (all brains no heart).
Nice – Passive, sentimental 1950s Mom plus self-indulgent uber-spiritual High Priestess caricatures (all heart no brains)
It’s time for a new archetype to emerge – that of the Dynamic Feminine. Not either nasty or nice. Not trying to impress or anxious to people-please. Not exacting revenge or allowing people to get away with it. Not restricted to female or male gender.
With this archetype in place, we can expand our hearts to include clever minds and instinctive guts. This means we can transcend our earlier versions of love – romantic love (restricted to one special person), sentimental love (restricted to things that are “cute”), and self-indulgent love (it’s all about me). In other words…
Fierce Love.
WORK WITH ME…
I help people who’ve lost their mojo, connect to their creative spirit so they can feel more alive again.
Most of us were raised by fearful parents whose main priority was our survival. Many thought that the best way to achieve this was through conditioning. We learned to be various combinations of…
obedient, compliant, resilient, impressive, educated, high achieving, people-pleasing versions of ourselves.
Unfortunately, there is a side effect to this strategy. We become limited versions of who we are. Behaviours that are expected of us get turned into roles that we now have to perform, regardless of how we actually feel. Any praise, validation, and success we receive goes to the role, rather than our true self, so it doesn’t nourish us at a deeper level. We get exhausted.
We’re constantly hungry for something we can’t quite name so we set more goals or different goals, but we no longer have the energy to see them through. Eventually, this leads to burnout.
In addition to this, our soul gifts of creativity, intuition, and wisdom get lost in the fog. We lose a sense of what makes us who we are. We forget our innate gifts. We yearn for freedom, joy, and the feeling of being alive.
I coach people to uncover their old programs in order to co-create new programs that are a better fit for their souls.
I do this through the world of archetypes - identifying the particular archetypes we embodied because the world (or our parents/peers) valued them, as a way to guarantee approval financial, success, status, or popularity.
After this, we identify the shadow archetypes… the ones that sabotage the free flow of our creative expression.
Finally, we identify the ones that have been waiting in the wings, yearning for their turn to play on the stage of life.
Ready to feel alive again?
Contact me for 1:1 COACHING, online courses, and retreats in France.
I want to create a community of smart people who want to expand their creativity and their consciousness and their capacity for Fierce Love… the kind that won’t buckle under pressure.
It’s not Tony Robbins… for the people who want to get down in the mud, crush their goals, and kill the competition. It’s not Spiritual Lite… for the people who want to hover in the light, reciting aphorisms in Lulu Lemon.
Everything happens in the middle ground – alchemy, fun, laughter, joy… and most important of all – transformation.
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